Random Acts of Kindness

About Love

Sometimes being in a fast-paced environment changes our being from relational to mechanical. We are trained to be productive as professionals and the way we are measured is by the yardstick of our performance – how much we earn and how much money we make.

When daily life loses its meaning, I’ve come to realize that one thing that can help bring back “life” is when we do random acts of kindness. The feeling of extending yourself for someone – may it be a stranger, or a special person, is incomparable.

One Thursday night I left work at around 9pm and walked to the street where I usually struggle to catch a jeepney or a cab. Evenings like this will take me 30-45 minutes to take a ride, unless I walk 5 blocks away where it’s easier to get transportation. I would usually prefer to take a long walk, but working overtime somehow consumed my energy and urges me to wait than take a smarter route. If your office is in Makati city, you probably understand what I mean.

While waiting for a ride, an old lady slowly crossing the street got my attention. I would expect her to be around 70 years old, she was thin and was carrying a big “bayong” (native bag). I recognized her face as one amongst those like me who have been waiving at jeepneys and cabs hoping for an available seat. I heard the traffic enforcer asked her where she’s going and if she likes to be assisted, but the lady refused and kept walking.

I followed the old lady, also because I felt concerned that she would never get a ride by herself. Unlike the traffic enforcer, I was surprised she talked to me and did not ignore my questions. She is from Lucena city, but stays in Libertad and travels in the Makati City Business District twice a week. She did not tell me the reason, but she said she would usually wait an hour or two until she can ride a jeep home.

It’s amazing how concern for others pushes you to move swiftly to reach your goal. I left the old lady sitting on a building staircase along Arnaiz so I could walk to Landmark and get a cab for the two of us. I asked her to wait and promised to come back. I walked the fastest that I could and was successful to catch a vacant taxi in less than ten minutes. The taxi driver agreed that we pick up lola (Filipino word for granny) before we go to our destination.

Good thing the traffic light turned red when we were approaching the building where I left lola sitting on the stairs. I stepped out of the cab, excited to take the old lady in with me and share the news that we can finally get a ride home.

But lola disappeared from the spot where I left her. I looked around then went back to the taxi, concerned that the traffic light will soon turn green.

“Baka nakasakay na siya” (Maybe she was able to take a ride home), Manong Driver encouraged me to be optimistic. I had mixed feelings that moment. Didn’t she trust that I would come back? I was a bit disappointed but did not feel like my energy was a waste.

I sighed, then breathed in again. Smiled, and thanked God. Because that moment, I felt alive.


Click to read other inspirational posts from the writer.


10 thoughts on “Random Acts of Kindness

  1. I still believe that man, by nature, are kind. The problem is that we are all faced under circumstances where we tend to forget this word, and at the same time, this characteristic. I salute you for doing that good deed to an old woman. People may think you’re a martyr that way, but I’ll say, “no, that’s heroism right there.”

  2. I am touched by your thoughtfulness. If only all of us will have this kind of concern toward each other, then this world would be a better place to live in.

  3. Faith in humanity restored. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t catch the old lady before she left, what really matters is the kindness of your heart and your good intentions. It amazes me when I hear stories of people who find time out of their busy existence to extend kindness to strangers. If only we all could do the same, this world would be a better place.

  4. Hi Jonah! You have a very good heart. To be honest, if that was me, I wouldn’t do that. There’s just too much bad things happening there in the Philippines and I’m very paranoid that what if its a “sindikato” lol

    1. Thanks Chel. When I wrote the article my intention was for people to be reminded to do kind deeds every now and then. It feels good and colors your day magically 🙂

  5. Have to be in your system the kindness deep within, and life’s nothing but happiness. I inspired me a lot.

  6. That’s very kind of you… I’m sure lola appreciates your thought in helping her.

  7. kindness is very rare nowadays because some of us are abusing it..good thing you still have it in you…

    1. Shouldn’t we all have it in us, Don? 🙂 But yeah, we should be wise discerning if it’s being abused.

Write a comment

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this:
search previous next tag category expand menu location phone mail time cart zoom edit close